Saturday, August 11, 2012

[TalkBiz] I NEVER do this

Hi, folks...



I've published this little e-rag of mine for coming up on 16

years, and I don't think I've ever sent out a copy-and-paste

affiliate email before. Or anything close to one, for that

matter.



If I'm going to say something, I do it in my own words. Not

that there's anything wrong with pre-written emails, mind you.

But who wants to get the exact same email from a dozen people?



Thing is, this is a story no-one can tell but Marlon. It's his

story.



I first met Marlon Sanders (I call him "The Professor") back in

2000. We hit it off from the start, but really only got to be

friends a year or two after that. (That's a whole other

story.) Thing is, I know what he's saying here is true. And I

know that what he's telling you will help you get a lot more

out of life. And not just in business.



If this story doesn't show you what's really possible, I don't

know what will. No matter where you're starting from.



With that... Heeeeeere's Marlon!



------ Marlon's Email ----------------



I just swallowed half of some pill.



A metro something or the other. It makes your heart

consume less oxygen.



If you wake up in the morning, it´s a good day. If you

know what your name is, it´s a better day. I learned that

when my mum had Alzheimers. Fortunately, I was able to

help my dad get her the medical help she needed to get her a

little pill gave her a lot of her memory back. At least she

always knew who I was.



So I guess as time goes on, sometimes you pay for the sins of

your youth. Not that I had those kinds of sins. Actually,

unbelievably, I didn´t.



My sins were of a different sort. The kind of sins that

eating way too many State Fair 6-pack corndogs drowned in

mustard causes. The kinds of sins you get from making your

"good" meal of the day the one at the $1.97 Burger drive

through on Greenville Ave. in Dallas.



Or the ones caused by the late night Taco Cabana drive

through to get the chips and cheese. See, today, I can sit down

with my laptop at Starbucks, or a creek, swimming hole, beach,

Starbucks or anywhere type out words, click send and have money

within minutes.



It´s a hecka feeling to be able to do that. Can you

imagine what it´d be like if you had a bill to pay to sit

down, spend 15 minutes typing some words, hit a button and have

the bill paid within 15 minutes?



Or have $120,000 in sales come in one month. Or $10,000

and $20,000 days.



Can you imagine writing at Starbucks and getting $750 for

every page you typed out. There are 300 words on a page so

that´s $2.50 per word.



Or deciding to vacation in Hong Kong and Thailand with 4

days notice? Well, it wasn´t always like this.



I remember now.



My dad said I had to go. I had to leave. Bless his heart,

he really regrets it now. Not that I blame him. I mean for gosh

sakes.



It was 1982. I´d just spent way too long in college

getting 3 degrees. The oil market had gone to hades in a

handbasket. I didn´t understand why when I interviewed for

jobs, people were laughing at me -- because they weren´t

HIRING! They were laying OFF. The only job I could get was one

selling on 100% commission "retirement programs" which were

actually whole life insurance.



But I was young and naïve then. I loved sales and

marketing. But had no natural ability or understanding for

either. Nope.



Nada.



I was more a thinker and a performer. I did magic shows

starting in the 7 th grade. About drove my poor momma

crazy hauling me around to perform and children´s birthday

parties.



I laugh about it now. I even had rabbits in the show and

hamsters. My poor mum! Have you ever seen the mess rabbits in a

cage make, especially when cared for by a seventh grader with

no knowledge of rabbit-raising? Whew!



And I was a thinker. I won my high school chess

championship. And me and the Cambridge Springs offense

were a pretty potent force. When you destroy someone on

the chess board, it´s an intoxicating feeling. I once

wiped the chess champion of Oklahoma off the board in a

devastating attack that had an entire chess team standing

around the board with their jaws dropped. Ted Gross. An

amazing 16-year old that I´m sure went far in life,

although we long since ago lost touch.



Where was I to go or stay in 1982 when there were no jobs

in Oklahoma City to be had? Well, I could´ve been a

counselor in a prison I guess. That´s about all I was

qualified for.



Robert K. My best friend. He´d high-tailed it to Dallas

when the oil market crashed went bonkers because Dallas

had jobs. He lived in an apartment off 635 with cars in

the parking lot on blocks. I told him I was just visiting

for 2 weeks. But it was longer than that.



I had this dream, this vision of being a copywriter of

direct response sales letters. Because in 1978, a few

years before, I´d read this book by Benjamin Suarez.



He learned how to do this thing called sell via direct

response. And a guy named Gary Halbert had taught him to

write letters that brought in thousands of dollars on

demand.



On particular letter brought him $78,000 almost overnight. That

story stuck in my brain like super glue and I couldn´t get it

out.



I had this goal. To be a direct response copywriter. I

didn´t know exactly what that meant. Never met one in my

life. Not sure Dallas even had one. But that´s what I

dreamed of with every cell in my body.



There I was. Dallas, Texas. I´d walk in for interviews.

Boy, it was brutal. For one thing, I was never on time.

Let´s just say in Oklahoma City they didn´t have traffic

like Dallas. I´d never seen a parking lot of cars that was

supposed to be a highway before.



I´d never been driving 70 mph and then notice that all the cars

in front of me are at a dead stop. How I´m alive today, I don´t

know. My guardian angel worked overtime many a day.



There were no jobs for direct response copywriters in

Dallas in 1982 or 3. Not that I knew of then. Not that I

know of now. There was one company in San Antonio, Texas

who hired `em. It was USAA insurance.



I´ll never forget sitting in the sandwich shop across the

street eating a sub. I´d never tasted anything like that

in my life. They didn´t make `em like that in Oklahoma

City.



I don´t know what the guy said or asked during the

interview. Whatever it was, I had all the wrong answers.

Somehow I paid some bills and managed to get out on my

own. As I recall an mlm company hired me to write their

company newsletter. The Dynasty System in Arlington,

Texas. $18,000 a year.



That was a lot better than the timeshare sales jobs I´d

been at on 100% commission. Or the smoke-drenched

telemarketing rooms.



How was I EVER going to be a direct response copywriter?

There were no jobs doing it. No one KNEW how to do it.

There were only several books on it. You had the Ultimate

Sales Letter by Dan Kennedy, which is actually a sales

pitch for Dan´s writing services but virtually no one I´ve ever

talked to is savvy enough about marketing to even realize that.

If I was marketing smart in those days, I would´ve written a

book too.



You had Tested Advertising Methods by John Caples. You had Vic

Schaub and few others. I subscribed to Jerry Buchanan´s info

marketing newsletter and bought anything by Dean Dax Duvall I

could find.



It´s what pisses me off about people today. They bitch,

moan, whine and complain about all the "gurus" selling

them stuff. Well try having NO GURUS to learn from or only 3 or

4. And try having virtually no courses or books to buy or learn

from. How would I ever learn to be a copywriter? Or a speaker

or consultant, the other things I´d heard about from some dude

named Steve Nowlin who sold a course I bought.



One day a thing came along called AOL. Aol, Prodigy and

Compuserve. I had this 386 computer my dad bought me from

the Dax catalog. And an ink jet printer, which beat the

thing at typed on at my writing job that would only show

you 1 line of text at a time but beat the crap out of

manual typewriters.



I started placing free ads on AOL. I´d bought resell

rights to these books that would be "dropshipped" for me

for 50% of the profits. I wrote up my OWN sales letter and

mailed those suckers out when people responded to my ad. One

A-hole (forgive the language) wrote me back and said it wasn´t

good enough and go back to school. I don´t know if he meant

college or learn more about writing sales letters.



You have no idea how much that hurt at the time.



Who was this jerk who had the gall to write something like

that? Apparently it was some smug person who was better at

direct response than I was.



All I knew was what I´d read in a few books. It was the

school of hard knocks x trial and error. I was living out

of a 600 square foot apartment on Spring Valley Rd. It

wasn´t all bad. I had 3 movie theaters close by and 2

shopping malls. But the walls were thin and dogs barked

all the time.



Depressed. Yeah. I don´t even remember all my feelings

then. Only that it seemed somewhat hopeless. I´d thought

more than once about suicide.



I don´t know if you´ve ever wanted something so bad you

could taste it. But by then I´d sacrificed years of my

life trying to learn how to be a direct response writer, a

speaker, a consultant.



And I had jack to show for it. I had too many corn dogs,

too many microwave burritos, too many burgers and fries

for days, weeks, months and now years.



Sometimes there´s a price you pay for success... for

following a dream, a goal, a vision that drives you. I´m

an idealist I guess. Somehow I was determined.



My ads on AOL got responses but my letters cost me a

fortune to mail out and didn´t come back with money. My

car smoked like a bomb. No, really it did. And I had a

date with a model once. The Kim Dawson agency was the big

one in Dallas and still is. That´s who she worked for.



She was 6 feet tall. Gorgeous. The valet guys were

laughing at my car when I got out .. until she stepped

out. Drop dead stunning.



But that was our only date. One day it happened.



The thing that eventually changed everything.



It was 16 sheets of paper. 16 sheets I still own. They´re

beat up, water stained, torn and tattered. Marked up all

over them.



But have them I do.



I don´t understand people online. They complain that they

tried something for 30 days and it didn´t work. Try years

and years.



They complain that something costs $20 or $50. Try $500 or

$5000. I mean, when you really want something, when it almost

means life or death to you to get it or not get it...



When it´s what you got to know, to do, to have, to be.



Whatever price it is, you pay it.



On those 16 pages were 11 words.



Without those 11 words, I might still be running Podunk

ads, not making crap, driving a smoke bomb car, depressed

to no end, having never accomplished anything, never

travelled anywhere, never meeting the incredible people I

have, never tasting food in the Phillipines, the sugar

sand in Roatan, body surfing in Australia, eating noodles

in Hong Kong, driving the twisted streets of Bermuda,

sucking down coffee in the parking garage in Seattle,

speaking in Wembley arena where rock stars perform. I´d be

nothing. A nobody. Maybe I´d be doing magic for birthday

parties. I don´t know. Remember my friend I moved to Dallas to

stay with?



Well, he wasn´t lucky like me.



We had that in common you know.



That drive to achieve. The need to.



But it wasn´t happening for him. The last I heard he´d

tied a rope around his neck and it broke. He was in

counseling. We were best friends.



I don´t think he made it. If only he could have hung on 5

years, I could have shown him the way out. When I listen

to Paradise by the Dashboard Light by Meatloaf, I always

remember him. That was his favorite song. We used to

really crank that puppy up.



So at the end of my ezine sometimes I publish a little

Irish Blessing about May the rode rise up to meet you. May the

wind be at your back. And until we meet again, may God hold you

softly in the palm of his hand. That poem is for many. Some

friends along the way who didn´t make it.



I wish anything I could have told him then what I know

now. That I could have shown him then what I know now. I

think I have an obligation, a duty, to share this before

it´s too late. Before the sins of my youth, of my vision,

of my goal catch up to me.



The greatest sales person who ever lived, Ben Feldman

said, "No man has a lease on life. One day you walk out

the door and you never walk back again. Can you guarantee

me you´ll wake up in the morning?"



Ernest Bud Weckesser. Dollars In Your Mailbox. He

originally wrote the headline in that ad: I Have To

Tell You This Before It's Too Late.



I think he got it from Joe Karbo. One of the founders of

modern day info product direct response.



16 pages. 11 words.



Set my life in a new direction.



Want to know what those 11 words were? If you do, then go

here:



http://talkbiz.com/needtoknow/igottatellya



Until then,



Marlon Sanders



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